Wednesday, 18 November 2015

Dare to Soar!

Are you living as a Chicken or an Eagle?

A man found an eagle’s egg and put it in the nest of a barnyard hen. The eaglet hatched with the rest of the chicks and grew up with them.

All his life the eagle did what the rest of the chickens did, thinking he was a chicken. He scratched the earth for worms & insects, he clucked and cackled and he would thrash his wings and fly only a few feet into the air.

Years passed and the eagle grew old. One day he saw a magnificent bird above him in the cloudless sky, it glided in graceful majesty among the powerful wind currents, with scarcely a beat of it’s strong golden wings.

The old eagle looked up in awe and asked the chicken next to him, “Who’s that?” …
“That’s the eagle – the king of the birds” said his neighbour, “he belongs to the sky, we belong to the earth – we’re chickens”.

And so the eagle lived and died as a chicken, for that’s what he thought he was.
                                                                        __________

So...What's it to be for you?

Are you going to live like others, do what others do, and be like others?
Are you going to believe what others tell you rather than do your own thing or find out for yourself?
Are you never going to question other peoples beliefs about what you can achieve?
Are you going to believe something is unattainable because others around you have never reached those heights?

Are you going to continue living like that until, one day, you see someone living and doing what you can already do right now?

How are you going to feel seeing people
living the life you want to live?

Or are you going to change, right now?  Are you going to shed the shackles of restraint, throw off those limiting beliefs and listen to that voice deep inside you, that tells you again and again to FLY?

Why don't you be the person you are destined to be RIGHT NOW?

Don't waste another second.  Be the person you were BORN to be!  Dare to Soar...and soar high!



Wednesday, 11 November 2015

Beware False Profits/ Prophets

I have heard more and more about perfection in the last few days from all different angles…

Aren’t these three comments great? How many so called self help people tell you this:
  • "My life is perfect"
  • "Everything I want comes to me"
  • "I have no worries, concerns or fears"
Have you heard these from people: friends, strangers, mentors, gurus?

Why don't we throw a few more comments in?
  • "When I wake in the morning my bed makes itself"
  • "My clothes fly out of my closet neatly pressed and onto my body"
  • "All the cars get out of my way when I am driving"
I have news for you...
The first three comments come from liars.
The second three comments come from the same people but you don't believe those three, they sound like jokes.

Well, the first three are jokes too!  And so are the people who tell you them.

The perfect person doesn't have any fear, insecurity or negativity.
The perfect person doesn't drink.
The perfect person doesn't smoke.
The perfect person doesn't fail.
The perfect person doesn't get upset.
The perfect person doesn't get angry or sad or confused.....
...The perfect person doesn't exist!

NOBODY has a life free of concern, fear, insecurity, self doubt or negativity. You get these feelings every now and then because, shock horror, you are HUMAN!

DO NOT follow or listen to people who tell you otherwise, because they are lying and hiding behind a facade.  Worse is that they are lying to themselves if they believe it.

A true friend, mentor, trainer or 'guru' (I hate that word) is a human being.  Not some elevated being that has transcended to a new plane of awareness.  They are in the real world, with real people, with abilities and teachings, not mystical powers.

We all have concerns, fears, insecurities, self doubts and negativity in our lives, I do, just as much as you do.  I have learned to control them and see them for what they really are, and not for more than they are.

That is all you need to do too.  All you need is help to do it.  All you need to know is how to do it.

Life is a roller coaster, it has its ups and downs. Instead of lying on the track waiting to be run over, come and find out how to get back in the car and enjoy the ride.

Tuesday, 10 November 2015

The Movie In Your Mind!

The Lion King. I saw the movie when it came out in 1994. I saw the Video! And then the DVD. When I was in Disneyland in Florida in 1998 we went to see the live show in the Animal Kingdom. I then saw the Stage Show in London. I have seen enough of the Lion King so I won't be bothering with the 3D version blueray DVD.

BUT...

Isn't it amazing how often children watch the same DVD over and over again and never complain? They only complain if you don't let them watch it. How many times has the Lion King been in and out of your DVD player?

Now, I can watch a DVD again and again. Something like The Godfather, Hannibal Lecter movies or The Pink Panther movies. Perhaps your preference is Star Wars or Lord of the Rings? I admit that, when I am asked what my favourite Christmas movie is I get stunned looks when i say: "DIE HARD,  Yeah, the first one, with Alan Rickman as Hans Gruber...Nakatomi Building, Christmas Eve Robbery, guns explosions..."

Whatever it is, we do it. And sometimes we see something, or understand something, that we didn't 'get' or that we missed the first or last time.  I can't tell you how many times I have seen Glengarry Glen Ross or the Tom Ripley movies like Ripley's Game or The Talented Mr Ripley.

I am the same with books. They can be Thomas Harris Lecter thrillers or James Herbert horror novels or Patricia Highsmith psychological Ripley books, they can be books that are relevant to personal development, NLP, Hypnosis, Persuasion etc.

Its just that SOMETIMES we read or see something that resonates more than before.

Unfortunately this is what some adults do with their days. I say unfortunately because they don't do it in a GOOD way. The majority of men and women play a movie in their mind. And they do this day after day, relentlessly focusing on past events, most of which are unpleasant and disturbing experiences. Arguments and fights. Bad experiences. Failures.

They get so good at it that they can remember entire arguments. THEN they rewrite it and imagine themselves saying things they hadn't and WINNING an argument they may have lost, or saying things they hadn't thought of at the time.

At some point they realise that this is having a negative effect on them so they then allow impressions of their current surroundings and recent results to dominate their thoughts.

If they contemplate the future then it is usually by worrying about it, or wishing that something better might come along.

Then they wonder why bad things keep happening to them, or why they never rise above the issues and obstacles in their lives.

People are free to think anything they want but I know one thing for sure. If you keep doing the same thing your results will never improve.

An image in your mind is the first stage of the creative process in life. From your imagination your visions and plans arise.

Napoleon Hill wrote, "You will never have a definite purpose in life; you will never have self confidence; you will never have initiative and leadership unless you first create these qualities in your imagination and see yourself in possession of them." He went on to say, "... imagination is the most marvelous, miraculous, inconceivably powerful force the world has ever known."

There is a concept called "Fantasy - Theory - Fact." The premise underlying this concept is that everything has its origination in the form of Fantasy, which some adventurous souls dare turn into a theory and then boldly turn into fact. Give this serious thought for a moment.

The idea of moon landings, communicating by email, traveling on jets, cellular phones or wearing synthetic garments was, a very short time ago, sheer fantasy. Today, they are considered commonplace.

Your marvelous mind has factors that you can, with little effort, develop to use to improve the quality of life, not just for yourself, but for anyone you choose. Imagination is one of those creative faculties. The individuals who were responsible for the conception and creation of the email, cell phones and any of the thousands of modern conveniences we enjoy today had a highly developed imagination.

Think of...
Walt Disney with animation.
Steve Jobs with Apple
Thomas Edison with Electricity.
Edmund Hilary with Mount Everest.

All of the above had one thing in common; Imagination. They saw it, they achieved it.

Fantasy - Theory - Fact.

Think of it. Figure it out. Do it.

They didn't listen to people who said they were mad, or wasting their time. They took no notice of the people who poured scorn on their ideas. They didn't listen to people who said 'that can't be done'.

Do you listen to people who are negative, energy vampire, MOOD HOOVERS?? Why? They don't know what they are talking about.
Do you get involved in arguments with people? Why? They don't know what they are talking about or what they are doing.
They have no positive interest in you so why do you assume that anything they say should make any difference to you?

These pioneers above; Disney, Jobs, Edison...they used their mental faculties to fantasize, to build wild and wonderful pictures in their mind. Then, holding their thought with their will, they watched their fantasy unfold into a theory and then into fact. They seemed to have an innate awareness that if they could visualize it, they could do it.

Use this power to let your mind play. Fantasize a much better life than you presently enjoy. Draft your future with imagination, ponder and calculate with intelligence and awareness, then knit it with care. Next, devise paths and find tools to help get you there.

Create a vision board. Construct a board containing all of the things you want to buy, achieve and experience. One by one, or in some cases all at once, you will be able to tick off each achievement.

Commit to reach those new goals. The only barrier separating you from your goal is ignorance - ignorance of how simple, and simply powerful, your mind really is.

Think those powerful things again and again.
Read the positive books again and again.
Watch the great stuff again and again.

Be like a kid watching the Lion King again and again. Who knows? This time you may see something you missed last time ;-)

Monday, 2 November 2015

The Universe Is Holding You Back?

The universe is constantly engaging with us, testing us and throwing all manner of things towards us
that we can choose to engage with or not. The universe never stops.

Sometimes the Universe holds a big hand up telling us to stop, wait or go back. It's as if the universe doesn't want us to get on or progress.

But wait a moment.  Look at it another way.

What if these challenges or 'problems' are sent as a sign to tell us, 'Not yet!' or 'Wait a moment'.

It is more likely that the Universe has a bigger better plan in store for us.

If you feel like you are being pulled back, like the Universe has some ulterior motive, you are right.

"An arrow can only be fired at a target after it has been pulled back. The Universe is pulling you back and you are the arrow!"



The Universe is constantly bombarding us with opportunity, sorrow, pleasure, good things and bad. It will never stop.

Take death.  If we deal with death badly, don't worry, another death will come along for us to deal with. Same with strife, worry, concern.  If we deal with negative things badly, it will send more until such time as we are strong and able to deal with it.

It will send great, wonderful, meaningful things to us too that we will enjoy; though some people have a difficulty dealing with the good stuff. Guess what? The universe will send more good stuff to them until they are used to handling it.

Sometimes, when we are about to gain a big success in our life, it doesn't happen.  Why?  Because there is an even bigger, more fulfilling success on its way and this time, it is the right one.  Remember: You are the Arrow!

It is all a learning curve that we are on. A constant never ending journey towards self realization and actualization so that one day, when the universe calls us to join it...we are ready.

The universe has no concept of rules or protocols. It doesn't care if you are busy, it doesn't care if you are ill, it doesn't care if you are overloaded, it will still present you with opportunity; opportunity to grow.  It only cares that you get what you want, learn what you need and do what you were born to do.

If we take everything that is given, sent or dumped on our doorstep in a visual, auditory, kinesthetic, intuitive way then we will get it. 

‘Getting it’ is everything. 

 How we 'get it' is immaterial.  The Universe knows the right time.

Saturday, 17 October 2015

Manifesting with Passwords

Is it the name of your dog?
Your nickname?
Your mothers middle name?
Is it your favourite movie?
Your kid's name?
Superhero, girlfriend, boyfriend...
...wait a moment...

What if it was none of those?

What if it was what you REALLY desired?

How many times a day do you see a box like this?

You see it for Twitter, Facebook, Google+, your email, that forum you belong to, those on line banking accounts you have, your website design program...the list is endless.

I see quite a few people doing what I have been doing for a number of years.  I only did it because I was at a seminar in Switzerland and someone told me THEY did it and I thought 'That's for me'.

How often do you see this graphic above?

Do you also see this message sometimes: “Your password has expired. Click ‘Change password’ to change your password.”

That is a GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY to make something you desire MANIFEST in your world.

Instead of using the same old tired passwords why not tell the Universe exactly what you are focusing on?

Can you really keep asking for something from the universe again and again out loud?  No!  Not in company you can't...not if you are in the office you can't.  People will think you are nuts.  (I CAN do it actually, people have always thought I was nuts ;-))

But by changing your passwords into your wish or your command you can!

My business on line banking password was (and I repeat WAS!).... M4keM00reMoney.  I used that for a long time and money was being paid in regularly by clients.

What about:
g3tanewcar?
St4yH3althy/
Smokele$$?
Eatw3ll?
BeSucce$$ful?

These small actions keep what we desire in the forefront of our minds and they tell the Universe, 'this is the direction I am travelling'.  I am a firm believer that The Law of attraction on it's own is useless.  Sitting around wishing for something will not make it happen, you have to do something to show your determination, drive and desire for it and the Universe will comply.  The last two syllables of Attraction are ACTION.  Action is the key.  Do SOMETHING to get nearer and nearer to your desires and make them happen.

The Universe is moving all the time to conspire and make your dreams come true but you have to do your part and these very simple, underused but simple and powerful Password changes, used effectively like this, will keep your desires, your dreams and your future on track because you are continually reminded of them and you reinforce them EVERY time you type them.

Dream big, live large.

Within you lies the answer.

Motivation is one of those things that comes from within. 

External help is just that: help.  There has to be the desire within to be/get motivated, some impetus that makes you want to change.

I can help you. Others can help you. That's all it is.  Help, assistance, aid, call it what you want.  The only person who can 'do it' for you is YOU!

No one can 'Happy' you into being Happy. 
No one can eat for you when you are hungry.
No one can drink for you when you are thirsty.
No one can read and study for you if you want to learn something.
No one can run for you for your fitness regime.

..Motivation is exactly the same. 
You have to take action and start the process yourself.

Self help books can't do it for you.  They can only help you, the clue is in the name.  In fact, they should be called 'shelf' help books because that's where they end up, on a shelf, because you lost interest or motivation to read past page 22.

A great coach doesn't tell you what to do: they show you where the answer is for you to discover it.
But first, you have to want or need to find it.

If the need, or the desire, isn't there then no amount of help will 'help'.

So if you want to be motivated, successful, fit, happy, healthy, wealthy or wise...start by looking within...because you have to really want it.

Signs? They are all around you!

I woke up at 6am this morning and I spent a few moments lying in bed asking myself; "What are some of the secrets to success in life?"

I found the signs right there in my room.

Then I found signs EVERYWHERE I looked!

The signs are in your room too. you just need to look for them....

The fan said,"be cool",

The roof said, "aim high",

The window said, "see the world",

The clock said, "every minute is precious",

The mirror said, "reflect before you act."

The calendar said, "be up to date".

The door said, "push hard for your goals".

The light said "Always see me."

The corner said, "You can always fight your way out of me."

The glass of water said, "Stay thirsty for knowledge."

The shower said "wash yesterday away, today is a blank canvas".

The notebook laughed and said, "read me for direction."

And I can see more of them now I am looking for them.

What signs are there around you?
Please share this to motivate people who are important to you.

I posted this because you are important to me.

Saturday, 3 October 2015

GUARANTEED RESULTS?


A question I get asked about the HPT-Transformation Live 10 disc set (click HERE and then click
'buy NOW') is:
'Am I guaranteed the same results in my life as you?'

The answer is simple: NO.

A lot of people will now say 'Aha!  I knew it, he can't guarantee me the same level of success in my life as in his!  I bet it doesn't work.'

Truth is, that response comes from a short sighted, glass half-empty, kind of mentality.
It's the mindset of a person who has preconditioned their failure and will accept nothing but failure so that they can be proved right.  Isn't that a great context to work out of?

The reason I can't guarantee you will be at the same level of success in life as me is because you could quite easily far exceed my success!

How you implement the teachings of HPT into your life is down to you, and it can bring massive, monumental, change. Concentrating on it not working will stop it from working.

So, if you are one of these people who think it won't work for you, you are right, it won't, and that is YOUR FAULT.

If you want a guarantee then here it is:
"If you do absolutely nothing, if you do not buy this program, if you buy it and do nothing with the information...it will definitely not work!" 

But if you buy it, you focus, you concentrate, you accept the information and you listen and take action... get ready to be the person you were destined to be!

It Is Our Duty



"You and I want our lives to matter. We want our lives to make a real difference — to be of genuine consequence in the world.

We know that there is no satisfaction in merely going through the motions, even if those motions make us successful or even if we have arranged to make those motions pleasant.

We want to know we have had some impact on the world. In fact, you and I want to contribute to the quality of life. We want to make the world work."


Create nothing first.
From nothing, one can build something better than what existed before.

If you take something already in existence and rebuild it alter it or modify it, all you are doing is changing something that is already there.

We can, each of us, make a positive change to the world around us and to the people we meet and know. We can do that continually, on a daily basis. But what if we collectively create change. What if we align ourselves with other like minded people who see the world differently...

PHASE TRANSITION

Quantum Physics shows us that the random particles in a particle accelerator begin to align 1 by 1...when they reach a Critical Mass all the others fall into place.

I am indebted to +JamesA Ray who, in conversation, really got me thinking differently about this.

All it takes to make a massive change in your life, in your community and in the world is a group of likeminded people to reach a critical mass. Then you will shift the conscious mind of the planet.

We think too small these days.

Where are the visionaries?
JFK, who said 'we will go to the moon by the end of the decade.'
Gorbachev, who helped tear down the Berlin Wall.
+Elon Musk who created Tesla, SpaceX and Paypal
+Richard Branson who is taking the first civilians into space.
+Naveen Jain who is soon to be sending a spaceship to the moon and even Mars!
This is all about LEGACY!
It's what we leave behind for future generations.
It's what we are remembered for.
It's what we achieve.

We transform the world we know into a world of infinite possibility.

Whoever your personal God is, or maybe it is a Universal spirit....it wants us to choose goals that are SO BIG we cannot do them alone!

We do not get fired up by the things we can do easily!

We get fired up by doing things we have no idea how to do, and those that are HARD!

Communities are the key, the spark.

Communities are the Critical Mass

We need our tribe.
We are here to leave a legacy!
What can we do right now to make a difference?

Collectively, and with the same objectives, we become unstoppable...and the universe will conspire behind us and we create a Transformation...

Tuesday, 22 September 2015

A Prisoner of Belief

"I don't want any of you to believe a thing I'm saying. Get that. Don't believe me. Just listen. I don't need you to believe me. I want you to listen. Listen to understand: not just hear what I am saying. Listen to understand and listen also to what I am NOT saying too. You have a thought process, a decision strategy, that made you pay £2000.00 for this weekend. You booked your ticket, you paid, you got up this morning with the sole purpose of being here with me and everyone else. You are not alone, everyone else here did the same. You make choices, you decide on what you believe and what you don't. I know it, you know it. What's more, I know that you know that I know it!  
Everything you hear this weekend is not for you to blindly believe.  Think about it.  Ask questions.  Because what I am going to tell you are things you will be astounded at." 
~ Opening Statement/HPT-Transformation : Destination Seattle.


Have you ever been to the Novotel in Hammersmith in London?  It's a fairly decent hotel with conference facilities.  Not the biggest, most plush, hotel I have used for a seminar but I remember teaching the HPT-Transformation program there when we started.  One of the tube lights in the ceiling was flickering on the third day and I remember a guy called Clark, who was sitting underneath it, looking very annoyed and I asked him what was wrong?

He told me he had been travelling for 5 years, working all over the world.  He had been to Nepal and the Himalayas seeking out spiritual teachers who could show him 'the way' and how to gain 'enlightenment'. He had been to India to sit with psychic and meditative Guru's who would show him how to 'search deep within and draw out his internal strength and understanding'.   He had lived and worked with 'wise men' from a mexican commune, and spiritual teachers whilst in Africa. He was still searching at the end of all that.  He believed that all of them would work.  He believed that he needed something new, plugged in or fixed within his mind, to take him up to the level he wanted.  He had no idea that he already had all of the tools within him and all he needed was to be shown how to access them.

"I can understand why you are angry"  I said.

"That's not what makes me angry" he replied, speaking into the microphone to 300 people.  "After spending all that money, all that time and energy, and travelling thousands of miles, believing that what I was doing was right,  today I finally 'Got It!'"  Everyone in the room applauded him, "What makes me mad," he said after the room fell silent, "is that I never believed that I would 'get it' while sitting under a faulty light in a room in Hammersmith!"

Beliefs are, in the majority of cases, a lie. They are not the truth. The truth has to be experienced. Unless we have experienced something, it is not real.

"Sometimes, the truth is so believable; people usually just believe it instead of experiencing it."

Everyone has a belief system. These systems were formed when we were children.

It is probably a result of our ingrained beliefs about what a relationship should be, as opposed to the reality of the actuality of a relationship that has resulted in the high divorce rate.  Our beliefs of what is important and not important are so strange sometimes that we sit unknowingly at odds with them and have no idea what the issue is that is bothering us every day.  We never ever think it could be our beliefs. We can spend our lives believing in something with no experience of the reality only later to find that the truth is somewhat different to what they believed.

When we separate what we BELIEVE from what we EXPERIENCE we will begin to run our lives, but not before.

The problem with a belief is that we take it to be the truth. That’s fine if you imprint a belief in your mind that you will achieve, you can do it, you will attain success….but we have thousands of other beliefs that do not serve us. Those ‘other’ beliefs are detrimental and if we take THEM to be the truth we could get stuck in them.

In other words most of us persist in thinking and doing what we learnt long ago, rather than acting out of our experience in response to whatever is happening now.

A classic story illustrates this point:

A man watches his wife cutting an inch off the end of the Lamb bone before putting it in the oven to roast. After watching her do this a few times before, her husband asks her why. She tells him that her mother always did it that way. A few weeks later the husband asks his Mother-In-Law why she cuts an inch off the end of the lamb bone. She tells him, “My mother always did it that way.” The Grandmother is very old, in her 90’s, and when the husband and wife visit her one day he asks her the same question. “Your granddaughter, and your daughter, cut an inch off the end of the lamb bone before they put the lamb in the oven. They do it because you always did. Why did you do that?”

The old lady looks at the husband and says, “Well, in those days, I had a very small oven and the leg of lamb wouldn’t fit unless I cut an inch off the end of the bone!”


Most people are cutting an inch off the end of something in their lives to fit into an oven that’s no longer too small for it.

Most people are stuck in a melodramatic soap opera of their lives with the same four or five problems they have always had. The bigger problem is that they continue with beliefs that have been carved into their minds since childhood and they are the reason they keep repeating the behaviour.

Here is a frightening example:
You trip over when you are five years old and cut your knee and your mother says, 'Don't cry; crying is bad," so you don't cry. Then you have a fall while skiing when you are 17 and you break your leg but you keep a stiff upper lip and you don't cry because crying is bad. Then when you are 24 you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, and you really thought that they were 'the one' and you STILL don't cry.
The more you repress your feelings the more your consciousness shuts down. You become barely alive. You act like a zombie. You function mechanically and get a reputation as 'a bit of a cold fish'.

The reality is that as you function mechanically more and more, in some cases, you become successful at it. Here's a reality check: Mechanical success is not any more satisfying than failure.

I took my psychology training years ago and therapy has always been concerned with the way people are run, or how they function, by what was rather than what is and how to free people from their past. That never sat comfortably with me. I know hundreds of people who trained just like me and never questioned it.

There are 2 reasons they didn't question it:
1. FEAR! As in: 'Don't make waves....if you question it they will flunk you.'
and
2. Cut the end of the bone off the Leg of Lamb!

What do I mean by that? Think about it.

That's right: It has ALWAYS been done that way, so there must be a good reason for it.

How does HPT (Human Potential Transformation) differ from Therapy? Therapy is concerned with curing people of an 'illness' whereas HPT offers people an experience of themselves, and the ability to design a future.

It is evident from my travels and studies, and from the Transformational Change work I have done in the last few years which, I admit, has become more extreme and direct, that Belief Systems are, by and large, a myth.

Belief Systems are created by knowledge or data without experience.

If you experience something, it is real for you.
If you communicate it to somebody, it is real for them because you are expressing your experience.
If they tell it to someone else, it's a lie. It is merely a belief without the component of experience.

A belief is a very powerful thing. You can kill or you can cure with one. I have earned my living for many years training people to believe in themselves, which is good. You CAN believe in yourself because you have the experience of yourself, you are your own reality. I can prove to you, from my beliefs, that what I think and see is true.

I ask people what they expect to get out of the training program and the list can be very diverse. Some say they want to get to know themselves, some say they want to make better decisions, have more self confidence, be more decisive, fall in love, be more open, sell more product, be a better leader or manager....

What they ALL have in common is a set of expectations!

They truly believe that their happiness is dependant on more love, money, power, sex, self confidence, etc. Each has a belief system that relates satisfaction to something they are striving for.

The REALITY is that their happiness is a function of accepting what is, and make it separate from what isn't, what was and what is to come.

Belief is a structure which can contain very little information in terms of making it useful in your consciousness or well-being.

HPT works on Observation and not Belief. Observation has nothing to do with the senses, perceptions or belief systems. It only deals with direct experience...REALITY.

One of the core HPT Observations is that Life can be considered to be three foot long, and the first two feet eleven inches are about the material aspects of life (food,clothing and shelter) and what's known as 'psychological needs'. You need someone to love you and someone you can love back. You need self esteem, recognition and respect from others.

After people fill their needs they start to look what it MEANS to fill their needs. They start to realize that there is no true satisfaction in just filling your needs and they look beyond that. And THAT is the last inch. THAT is what HPT is all about.

It is the last inch, that has been cut off the bone again and again. That Inch is the life changer.

That last inch is where we discover TRANSFORMATION.

Thursday, 17 September 2015

THIS WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

THIS WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE!  


Let me unlock the vault for you!

But first...
Have you ever read a book like The Secret, the Power, Think and Grow Rich, Ask and It is Given, 
Rich Dad/Poor Dad and others.  
Haven’t we all?  
The bookstores on our high streets and online are turning over thousands of copies of these books every week. One common factor runs like a thread through all of these books:  they promise to teach you how to make millions, be happy and manifest all your desires.

It is no surprise that they have been talked about on SkyNews, Oprah, CNN, NBC, The Today Show, Newsnight and written about in Time Magazine, The New York Times, GQ, Cosmopolitan and hundreds of other publications. Major celebrities, famous billionaires and members of Royal Families have admitted to using the information in these books to achieve riches and fame.

When you read one, or all of them, did you get the feeling that something was missing?  As if you had completed a 1000 piece jigsaw only to find that the most important piece was missing?  You are not alone in feeling like that!

These books are very good.  They explain a lot.  They show you what can be achieved.  But there is a problem with them…they ALL miss the most important secret key ingredient that makes the information REALLY work, and work FAST!

That’s why most people who read them do not get results. Most of the people who buy and read these books get all excited about their life changing, getting that new job, new car, new partner and that ability to have some salary left at the end of the month rather than some month left at the end of the salary!  Then, the reality sets in.  They do everything those books suggest and they wait, and they wait, and they wait…and NOTHING has changed! 

Quite naturally, people believe that they did one of three things:

1. They did something wrong…they didn’t!
2. They didn’t do it right…they did!
3. They missed something...no they didn’t…it wasn’t there!!
The third one is almost right! In actual fact, they didn’t miss anything, it just wasn’t there!  
It’s very hard to miss something if it isn’t there in the first place.

The fact is that there IS a MISSING KEY that has been PURPOSELY OMITTED
from these books and others like them!
This KEY INGREDIENT makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE!

I am about to tell you about the MISSING KEY to making ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE!
Here is how I learned about this and why I am offering it to you now.
As I have revealed in my seminars and on my blog, I have spent many years studying just what it is that some people do that makes the difference that makes a difference.  Why are some people more successful than others? Why do some people seem to have everything while others spend their lives wanting?  Why is it that some people seem to live high up in a rarefied atmosphere where wealth is all around them and yet, they don’t appear to be doing anything different than YOU?

How many times have you asked yourself: ‘Why can’t I be more successful?’ or ‘Why can’t I have what I want, live the life I want, and provide everything for my family?’

Get ready!

I am going to show you how to have, be or do anything you want!!

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Let’s cut away the fallacy from the facts…

“These secrets are known to the chosen few people.”
That is absolutely true.
“Who are these people?” 
They are members of Companies, societies and organizations around the world, but they are NOT the secret underground, Area 51, for your eyes only, stealth, need to know basis, loved by conspiracy theorists Gray Men people think are lurking in the background.
They are people who belong to Companies, Businesses, organizations and groups who know these secrets and who pass this information on to a select few.  The average guy has no chance of gaining membership and receiving all the benefits from the knowledge, networking opportunities and associations these societies offer…UNLESS, they were invited, proposed and accepted.

That is one reason the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.

Most of the secret societies are not really a secret at all. It’s what goes on INSIDE the societies that is the big secret! It’s how its members work together that is a secret!

When you are a member of one of these organizations or societies you LEARN a new way of doing things,  of how to obtain incredible wealth, power, luck, control, happiness, romantic love… You learn how to CONTROL all situations in your life and how to make all events turn out for YOUR advantage. You are taught secrets that can allow you to HAVE…BE....and DO...ANYTHING and EVERYTHING YOU WANT!
 
These secrets,
WHEN APPLIED CORRECTLY,
CAN make all your dreams come true!


The questions I get asked are...
“WHAT exactly are these secrets?
“HOW do I apply these discoveries for wealth, power, luck, love and romance in my personal life and make it work for me?

AND —

How can I get this knowledge without being a member of these societies, companies or organizations, so I can BE, DO, and HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT “FAST?”

Now those questions are being answered! Whatever YOUR dreams in life are....they CAN be achieved!

These secrets are SO powerful
and work so fast
that they AMAZE all who use them.

When used correctly, whatever you want in life can come RUSHING to you like it is being pulled by a magic magnet.

WARNING! Money can come to you so fast and in such large amounts, it will frighten you!   (I know this sounds too good to be true, but it IS TRUE…and it is as good as it sounds!)

I have acquired this information and I am willing to pass THE COMPLETE INFORMATION on to people outside of those organizations, businesses and societies who believe this information is on a need to know basis.  Imagine having ME ‘PERSONALLY’ teach YOU how to apply this most powerful secret technology in YOUR life and helpMAKE ALL YOUR DREAMS AND WISHES COME TRUE!

For the first time ever you will have revealed to you the secrets that were previously exclusive to members of these groups! Now, for THE FIRST TIME, someone is willing teach YOU exactly how to use these powerful secrets inYOUR life and make them WORK for YOU....in RECORD SPEED!  And that person…is ME!

You will learn how to HAVE, BE AND DO ANYTHING YOU DESIRE!



Imagine having ME as your PERSONAL mentor to teach YOU the secrets to making more money faster than you ever thought possible, have unlimited power in your personal life, have the most amazing romantic relationship you could imagine, have amazing health and vitality, become lucky in everything you do, control all people and situations in life, and have the financial freedom to enjoy your life like never before!

As you know, these companies, organizations and  societies include many wealthy and powerful people. I have talked with and confer with many of these members.

HERE IS A VERY IMPORTANT POINT!
In all the books and seminars you have read or watched, in person, on tape, on DVD or on the Internet, you have ONLY EVER been given enough information to make you want more.  The people promising you answers are not going to give you THEIR secrets because they don’t want the competition.  They are just going to tell you enough to make a slight increase in the levels of your life so that you see an improvement.  So that you think ‘it worked’ but then…nothing else happens.  If you are happy with that then stop reading now.
Here is the difference that MAKES the difference:

I UNDERSTAND how it works AND I AM GOING TO SHARE THE COMPLETE PROCESS WITH YOU. 



So...

Here is the shocker, you better sit down:  Unlike the others I DON’T CARE HOW SUCCESSFUL OR RICH YOU BECOME because I don’t see you as a threat to ME…I KNOW THERE IS ENOUGH WEALTH IN THE UNIVERSE TO GO AROUND…IT IS ABUNDANT.  THERE IS ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE. 

The ONLY barrier to your success is YOU!

I have associated with some of the most successful and powerful people on the planet. This creates a “master mind” group – making the society even more powerful, and membership even more beneficial. When you associate and learn from super successful people, it actually DOES rub off on you —— YOU are changed for the better!

See it as the ULTIMATE CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE AND SUCCESS...And the best part of a circle is....? BEING ON THE INSIDE!

Think about it…dream about it…AND watch for the next post when you will be given the opportunity of your lifetime.

In the mean time...think of this...
WHAT WAS YOUR LIFE LIKE FIVE YEARS AGO?

My story is very unique.
I have lived a lifestyle most people
only dream about.

My achievements in business, health, my uncanny luck, and my lifestyle have amazed me and the people who know me. I have lived an amazing life.

Here’s what using these powerful secrets has done for me:

My associated companies have done MILLIONS of pounds in sales

I have owned Publishing companies, Sales companies and businesses in the UK and in many other countries

I have lived in million pound homes, all across the UK, and on 3 continents

I live a life that allowed me to drive cars like Rolls Royces, Ferraris, Jaguars, Bentleys and Mercedes

I have owned millions of pounds worth of fine jewelry, gold, antiques and art

I travel first class wherever I go (including jets, limos and the most expensive hotel suites)

I’ve had private chefs, drivers and bodyguards

I’ve dined in the finest restaurants and enjoyed the most expensive wine and champagne

I have associated with some of the richest, most powerful people in the world including Prime Ministers, Generals, business tycoons and Hollywood celebrities

I also have unreal human health (I virtually NEVER get sick)

The reason I tell you these things is
NOT TO IMPRESS YOU.
It is to IMPRESS UPON YOU that I know something YOU NEED TO KNOW!

If YOU learn what I have been taught, YOU could HAVE, BE or DO ANYTHING YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE!

But life was not always good for me!

I was an only child, born in a very poor part of East London.  My parents worked VERY hard to put and keep a roof over our heads.  I grew up in a very loving environment with the best parents anyone could wish for.
Things didn't get better until my Father became a Manager with a very large supermarket chain.  He became an area Manager and Director before he retired.  In the early days we had no bathroom, just a tin bath in front of the fire three times a week.  We had a toilet at the bottom of the garden lit by candles. We had no telephone until I was 12 and a colour TV didn't appear until I was 15.  My parents worked long hours to make money.  I went to work when I was 15. 

Before I discovered how to get everything I wanted and learned the secrets, I was just an average guy who grew up in a very poor and moneyless environment.

I never went to college, that was much later, and for years went from job to job. I did not have “connections.” I was dead broke and overweight. Life was a struggle. Making ends meet was tough. I was in debt and had trouble paying my bills. I couldn’t get a date. I was unhappy and unfulfilled. Things never went my way. I felt like I had a black cloud over my head. I was unlucky in everything. I felt like a curse was on me. (Maybe you can relate in some ways.)

I WAS KING MIDAS IN REVERSE…
EVERYTHING I TOUCHED TURNED TO CRAP!

I was desperate to change my situation. I read over 1,000 self help books and went to every seminar I could, to learn HOW to be successful. The problem was that none of the people teaching me WERE successful! They all made their money TEACHING other people how to be successful! They NEVER did it themselves!

Everything I learned was THEORY.
It just didn't work in real life.
Worst of all, it was just a theory to the people who were teaching others.

But I was a young man who seemed to have potential. Although not a member of an elite privileged family, I was fortunate enough to meet someone who knew how to get what they wanted.  They also showed ME how it really works! It was a total fluke. I was at the right place at the right time. They gave me an offer I could not refuse. At the time I did not know WHY I was chosen to learn all of this.

When I received my invitation I immediately accepted! I studied and learned the secrets with more passion than anyone ever had in their history!

It turned out I was gifted with the unique ability, much like Einstein, at “crunching” or simplifying complex concepts and making them easy to understand and apply. I totally integrated the “secrets” into my whole being and life!

I even created what I call the “5 Second Miracle” from all this amazingly powerful secret information —— which is based on taking 100% responsibility for everything that happens in your life. I simplified the secrets I had learned, the information and secret keys to success.

One day, I felt I was READY to see if this secret information would REALLY work like they told me. Could it be true that by simply applying this foolproof, almost magical secret, I could HAVE, BE or DO ANYTHING I WANTED? Would it REALLY be that easy? Would it REALLY work so fast?

All these well-known, powerful, and super rich members told me it was true, and they had the physical proof it worked. They had the money, wealth, power, control, luck, health and status. It was definitely working for THEM. But would it work for ME?

It is a little like changing fonts and colours and margins on a computer.  It may look great but it will not be a permanent change unless you hit the ‘APPLY’ button..
and I hit ‘APPLY’ in my life!!!

Everything changed almost overnight for me! From the MOMENT I starting using this new knowledge, it worked – in fact, EVERYTHING in my life became better. It was almost magical! It was almost like I had found Aladdin’s Lamp and had a Genie that would grant me every wish I had!

Within a short time, I got out of debt. I started making more money than I could ever dream about. I became lucky at everything. I lost weight. My health became amazing! I had luxury cars, houses, jewellery and clothes. I bought my parents a home and a new car.  I travelled first class, and most importantly, I was HAPPIER than ever before. I was living a stress-free magical life

I felt I could see the future and predict events and will things to occur in my life with uncanny accuracy!

I also felt totally in control of all situations and people.

My confidence was at an all time high and I had no fear in my life!

I have attracted MONEY FROM ALL DIRECTIONS and have enjoyed a lifestyle that most people could not even imagine.

People all around me could not believe my success! It happened so FAST it looked like I hit the lottery! I became super “lucky!” Everything I touched turned to gold as if by magic.

Then one day, a person who worked with me came BEGGING to learn my secrets. He wanted to know HOW I was getting so lucky.

After three years of BEGGING, I reluctantly decided to teach SOME of the secret discoveries to him. This was AGAINST the rules of the PEOPLE WHO SHOWED ME! 

These discoveries and secrets were for THE CHOSEN FEW ONLY! But I felt I was only revealing a “FEW” of the secrets – NOT ALL OF THEM.

These secrets are SIMPLE and EASY to learn. He was a quick learner and he started applying these secrets right away.

Within a year, starting with ZERO, he became RICH BEYOND HIS DREAMS!

I could not imagine how good I would feel seeing another person succeed with this knowledge. It was fantastic!

NOBODY who had learned these secrets like me was supposed to pass them on to just ANYONE! This gives an UNFAIR advantage in life to the PRIVILEGED ELITE class. The “little” guy or “average” person is left out! I felt this was TOTALLY UNFAIR and just plain WRONG! So I decided to break the rules and teach some of the secrets to a few other people who were SERIOUS about doing whatever it takes to get a better life.

Could YOU also be one of those people?  Of Course you can be...why?  Because you already are, you just don't know it.  Let me show you....



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Monday, 14 September 2015

Discipline!

Transformation is a precise discipline.


Psychology and Philosophy are disciplines…I see Transformation as a discipline too.

The fact that Transformation is ‘new’ to many people it has a tendency to be completely misunderstood. That misunderstanding is not exclusive to Transformation. It happens with a lot of new disciplines.

When I was being taught NLP by Richard Bandler, the co-creator of NLP, he stated that when he walked into a bookshop and picked up a book on NLP written by someone he had never heard of he said in the majority of times, it either repeated what he had written, or it bared NO relation to NLP whatsoever. Bandler didn’t recognise it as ‘NLP’.

When people first began hearing about Cybernetics, it was assumed to be about a branch of engineering or Robotics.

There lies the challenge.

People try to grasp a subject in terms already familiar with them.
“When a thing is new, people say: ‘It is not true.’
Later, when its truth becomes obvious, they say: ‘It is not important.’
Finally, when its importance cannot be denied, they say: ‘Anyway, it is not new.”
~ William James


Transformation is a discipline that explores the nature of Being. Transformation takes place personally, collectively, in a business or personal relationship.

It is a discipline devoted to change, augmentation, enhancement, growth (intellectually and spiritually), possibility and to accomplishment.

Transformation is the ultimate Change of Change!

One has to remember, and indeed live by, one very simple tenet: “One creates from nothing. If you try to create from something you are just changing something. So in order to create something you first have to be able to create nothing.”

We use the word "transformation" to name a distinct discipline. Just as psychology, sociology, and philosophy are disciplines, so too we see transformation as a distinct discipline, a body of knowledge, and a field of exploration. I should add that because the discipline of transformation is brand new, it's likely to be misunderstood—something that happens to a lot of new disciplines. At the beginning of the study of cybernetics, for example, people didn't know what cybernetics was. They assumed it was a branch of Robotics, engineering or mathematics. People tried to grasp it in terms already familiar to them. Eventually, however, it became clear that interpreting cybernetics as a branch of anything actually missed the whole point of cybernetics.

From our perspective, the same situation is now true of transformation. Most people at­tempt to understand our work in terms of psychology, philosophy, sociology, or theology. While it is true that almost anything can be analyzed from those perspectives, none of those disciplines is our work. Each can provide a certain perspective on our work, but none of them is the work. Fundamentally, transformation is a discipline which explores the nature of Being. Less fundamentally, but still pretty accurately, we would say it is a discipline devoted to possibility and to accomplishment, in the sense of the source of accomplishment.



Wednesday, 2 September 2015

The Propulsion System

Any power that you consciously or unconsciously acknowledge or engage with within yourself is a
function of your internal propulsion system.  This can be transmuted into your power being a function of the rate your propulsion system moves your intention into reality.

It is quite common for us to disempower or weaken ourselves by discovering ways to slow, impede and make more complex and difficult than necessary the process of powering our intention into reality

There are two contributing factors relating to the disempowerment of ourselves.

The first is the domain of being reasonable. We deal with our intentions or act to realize our intentions from a context of being reasonable.  This means we are in the domain of working slow, permitting impediment and complicating issues. When we work from a standpoint of story or the narrative, the explanations, the justifications, there is no propulsion, velocity, speed, or power.

Results are black and white, acceptable or not, good or bad. In life, one either has results, which is signified by our intentions realized, or one has the reason, story, explanations, and justifications for it not being realized. The person of power does not deal in explanations. This way of being might be termed management by results (not management for results but management by results). The person of power manages him or herself by results and creates a space or mood of results in which to interact with others.

The other factor to be addressed is time. Now never seems to be the right time to act. The right time is always in the future, unless we check ourselves on that train of thought. Usually this appears in the guise of “after I/you/we do 'X' then it will be the right time to act”; or “after 'X' occurs, then it will be the right time to act”; or “when 'X' occurs, then it will be the right time to act.” The guise includes “gathering all the facts,” “getting the plan outlined,” “figuring out ‘X’,” “getting ready,” etc.

Since now is the only time you have in reality and now will never seem to be the right time to act, one may as well act now.

Even though “it isn’t the right time,” given that the “right time” will never come, acting now is, at the least, powerful (even if you don’t get to be right).

Most people wait for the decisive moment, whereas people of power are decisive in the moment.

Monday, 24 August 2015

Words to Avoid

DISCLAIMER
Bad or Strong Language?

Well, there is a difference.

In my seminars I make the same disclaimer each time, as you can see on the right:

OK, so occasionally the 'F Bomb' is let off (not just by me but by the attendees when they are confronted by things they have denied) but that doesn't mean that the language is bad, just strong.

There are reasons why it is strong:
I want you to remember a specific thing.
I want to shock you.
I want to shake you.
I really mean this.

There is also a reason why I deliberately say things that are not grammatically correct.  It is so that your conscious mind coughs on it, allowing my message to slip in and go into your unconscious mind.  Sometimes, to get a message across we have to resort to sleight of mouth techniques.

So what constitutes bad language?  Look at these words.  If you use any of these you must eliminate them from your vocabulary.  They do not serve you well.

You fill in the blanks....

B_T
T_Y
PER_ _PS
M_ _BE


Ok...

BUT!
Kick that but out of your life.  No one wants to hear your 'but' go off! ;-)

TRY!
Yeah great, that's a real empowering word.  Whoever wrote 'if at first you don't succeed, try, try, try again' wrote a great mantra to recite for failure.  If I told you I would 'try' and get over to see you tonight, you KNOW I wont be coming.  It's a cop out!

PERHAPS!
Another version of try...trust me, if someone says this to you....it ain't happening.

MAYBE!
This is a vague word.  It's almost the same as try and perhaps but maybe is neither one thing or another.  If you are asked something and you respond with maybe then you are sending a message that 'You don't know'!  People want certainty.


Now the next four...

PRO_ _EM

L_CK

C_NT

HO_E

Yeah, I know...so here are the real answers...

PROBLEM!
Aaaarrrgghh! The worst of all words.  Any situation that causes concern is now labelled a 'problem'.  There are no such things as 'problems'.  Fact!  A better word would be 'CHALLENGE'.  I used to run firewalk events for charities to raise money (it was very successful)...They were called 'The Firewalk Challenge'.  If they were called 'The Firewalk PROBLEM' no one would sign up or do it.  Turn anything you would consider a problem into something that you can deal with by calling it a challenge.  Down grade that sucker!
When you see 'problems' as hurdles you can leap over them.  They never stop you.  I would much rather watch the 200m hurdles than the 200m problem at the Olympics.  Imagine the starting gun going off and everyone runs 20 meters and then stops at the first 'problem'.  Who would pay the ticket price for THAT?

LUCK!
No such thing.  And if there is, you don't want part of it.  Imagine catching the eye of the pilot as you settle into your seat on a flight to Los Angeles.
You ask, "Hey, I was just wondering.  Looking at all those dials and switches in there, how are you gonna get us to Los Angeles?"
What would you do if the pilot said, "I dunno, maybe we will get lucky"?
That's right, you would be the second person off the plane.  I would be first!
there is no such thing as luck.  You create your own version of luck by the choices you make either consciously or unconsciously.

CAN'T
Anyone telling you that something can't be done is really telling you that they don't know how to do it.  If you look around you now, most of the stuff surrounding you, that you bought, that you use, like TV's-iPads-Mobile Phones-Radios-Computers-Cars-Planes-the list goes on...NONE of that stuff existed at one time because people had no idea how to make them happen.  they thought 'it can't be done'.  People with vision, nerve, belief, invented them.  They didn't listen to can't.  They thought CAN!

HOPE!
Again, something to hold onto.  It's false.  'I hope I win the lottery'  Yeah right, keep hoping.

Choose your words carefully.  Sometimes we say things by accident and we don't realise it's a limiter.  If we KEEP saying it we engage with it and then it becomes a way of life.

Remember, Be Positive may sound like a blood group but its really a way of achieving what you want, and doing what others say can't be done.

Words to Use

Some trainees of HPT-Transformation
during a break.
Little did we know it, when we started to formulate language, we had no idea that what we said to someone effected us as well.

Not only does what we say to someone effect them, it has an effect on us too, as the person saying it.

Our vocabulary, the one we reside in most of the time, is a key indicator of our own mindset and system.

"Everyday conversation" has a different meaning for speakers in a variety of speech communities. In the speech community of my youth (East London 'Cockney' working class) I would say that less than 100 words are necessary for survival: "I am hungry," "I am thirsty," etc.

As a teacher/ speaker/ trainer or educator, it is necessary for me to converse on the nature of thought, the definition of various terms (right, wrong, truth, etc.) must be explained at dinner parties and in casual conversation with various Academics and in front of audiences during seminars. A person with a vocabulary of 400 to 500 words would be able to function effectively as a member of society, but would not be able to discuss the idea of writing as internalized social discourse re-externalized. 

If your goal is to survive and to earn a living wage, then you could with a vocabulary of 400 words.

Working in a specialized field, however, (even if the field is machine operation in a factory) requires specialized terms. 

The first line of this post used at least 21 different words. To give you an example of the need for a large specific vocabulary, there are nearly 4900 terms associated specifically with baseball!  (A nice fact to trot out at a dinner party!)

Eliminating bad language from our vocabulary is a start.  As I said in a previous post, we advocate the removal of vague and disempowering words in the HPT-Transformation seminar.  This is because of the effect they have on us and on the people we use them on.  We have spent our lives unaware of this. Sometimes, the words we embrace, and use repeatedly, can be the reason we do not get the results we want in life.  The words we use can in fact have a negative effect rather than a positive or useful one. 

Anything you can communicate about, you can be with-at choice.  The words that HPT-Transformation advocate as language that should be in your vocabulary are incredibly useful and important when you are describing something that cannot be contained in a person's belief system.

What they do is allow people to know that you are not describing what they think you are describing.

Here are a few of the basic and most used:

ACKNOWLEDGE:
Recognition of one person by another.  Recognition of what another person says. Agreement that you have received what someone has said to you without giving any indication that you agree with it or not. A lot of the time, my response to comments in the seminar, if they are not a specific question, is  "I acknowledge what you are saying." or "I get that, thank you."  

ACT:
As in 'Getting your Act together', your face to the world.  We describe people who have attained transformation as 'people who have their act together'.

AGREEMENT:
A mutual understanding or arrangement about which it is understood that you will do what you said you would do.  An important factor of HPT is the importance of choosing to be responsible for keeping agreements.  If you break an agreement you are expected to look at what is in the space between you and fulfilling your agreement.
One of the maxims of HPT is: Do what you said you would do, when you said you would do it, how you said you would do it.

AND:
Replaces the word 'BUT' which is something that should be kicked or slapped.  Kick but out of your vocabulary as it has the connotation of 'Precluding' something.  'And' is far more empowering.  Remember, no one wants to hear your 'but' go off!

APPRECIATE:
Far more powerful than 'Thanks' or 'Thank you'.  Those just mean you are grateful, you have accepted something, like anything from an Oscar (Thank the Academy) or your change at the checkout (Thanks, bye!) .  When we say we appreciate something, as in 'I appreciate your comments' we display a connection far deeper than mere gratitude. We look and engage on a deeper level.  We see more of what has been given to us.  We can stand in front of a work of art and appreciate the effort, the beauty, the talent, the skill and the feeling we get from it.  We never merely 'thank' a painting.  We appreciate it.  Conversely we can say 'I don't appreciate your comments'.  We never say 'I don't 'thank' your comments.

ASSIST:
Aid to another person, coming from the assumption that the other person is responsible and at 'cause'.  It's in contrast to 'Help' listed in the post of words NOT to use, which puts the recipient at effect.

AUTHENTIC/AUTHENTICITY:
Being and acting consistent with who you hold yourself out to be for others, and who you hold yourself out to be for yourself. When the person you are when no one is looking is who you are when people are looking..

AUTOPILOT:
An automatic response is an unconscious one that we repeat until called on it.  Like yawning when others yawn.  Like shaking a hand that is held out to us without questioning.  Like asking someone if they 'want fries with that' when they order a portion of fries.  Like driving somewhere and having no memory of the journey when we arrive.  

BARRIER:
Whatever you have that sits between you and you experiencing your own perfection.

BELIEF:
A truly nonexperiential way of knowing which can prevent you from experiencing (true reality).
It is a misconception that prevents you from seeing what's going on for real.  Usually used as 'Belief System' which is just a whole bunch of beliefs.  Beliefs in themselves are good, when linked to an experience.
My reality, when related to you, becomes a reality to you as it has the benefit of coming from my experience. When you relate my experience to someone else it becomes a mere belief as it contains no component of reality.

BUTTONS:
Automatic behaviour or 'autopilot responses' are triggered when someone 'pushes your buttons'.

CAUSE:
Being at the cause of your experience is the polar opposite of being at its effect.  When we are the cause of our lives, then we create our own reality and we cannot be at the effect of other reality (powerless, bullied, victimized etc).  Once experienced, people gain incredible power over their lives.

CHALLENGE:
A far more powerful word to use than problem.  A challenge is something we can overcome, there is possibility of achievement in a challenge whereas Problem has the air of finality mixed with major issue. 
Everything negative should be catagorized as a challenge.

CHATTER:
Those voices in your head that tell you to do things.  Make sure they are positive and not negative messages. The voice in your head is called thinking, and the voice is your own.  You would not lie to yourself so make your thoughts empowering.

CLEAR:
Get Clear.  Clarify something. remove doubt and the rubble and wreckage that is preventing you from seeing.  Be free of doubt, obstruction, obfuscation and restrictions.  this is closely related to belief systems which prevent you from getting clear.

CONTEXT:
HPT creates a context in your life.  From a context of where things in your life are arranged in such a way to make you satisfied to an experience of being satisfied RIGHT NOW and organising things in your life around that. A Context is a set of circumstances that form the setting for an event, statement, or idea, and in terms of which it can be fully understood.  Most people work from within a contextual framework. Unfortunately, this frame is too limiting for them on a long term basis.  Like a comfort zone, unless it is stretched and widened, no growth can take place or be achieved.

EFFECT:
Literally: "At the effect of".  The consequence or outcome of the Cause.  When one is at the effect one cannot cause it and therefore feels powerless.  One can move from effect to cause by choosing to choose one's experience.

EXPERIENCE:
What HPT-Transformation is all about. Experience, experiential training, the source of reality.

FABULOUS:
One of the ultimate acknowledgements.  Also: Great, Fantastic.

GET/GOT:
Realizing the the meaning or the significance of a communication or experience.

HURDLE:
Another positive word to use in place of Problem.  Hurdles can be jumped over, climbed or kicked over.  If there was a 400m Problem event in the Olympics, every one of the runners would stop after 20 meters at the first problem.  The 400m Hurdles is a far better event.

INTENT/ INTENTION:
Direct relation to getting what you want. the achievement of your goal or experience.

LOVE:
Acceptance or agreement of the other to be who they are and who they are not.

MIND:
What we consider ourselves to be right now. "A linear arrangement of successive moments of now".

OBSERVATION:
The only way to know, other than 'natural knowing'.

ON PURPOSE:
How you live your quotidian life: with your eye on the goal.  Purposefully.

REALITY:
Reality is the context in which we work and live but it can be described as an illusion.  The only thing that is really real is experience.  The test for reality is physicalness. 

SHARE:
Communication of insights, experiences and realizations.

SOURCE:
Where it ALL comes from.  Every river has a source, every idea has a source.  The source is the creator of the idea.  The source of every idea, thought, question, decision...boils down to you and me.  We are our own source.

SPACE:
From here is not space: that is Distance.  From here to the edge of the universe is not space: it is distance. What physicists and astronomers call space is actually distance.  Space is where distance exists.  We cannot measure space, we can only experience it. When we allow others to be who they are is allowing them space to be.  When we are who we really are and we say and think what we really mean then we do so in the space we allow ourselves. 

TRUTH:
Your experience/s. Your experience/ experiences are the ultimate truth in your life.

UNCONSCIOUS:
What we are most of the time.  On Autopilot.  Out to lunch.  Unaware.  Oblivious.  An important HPT maxim is 'If everyone was allowed to say what was exactly on their mind right now, most people would be speechless!'  Many people drive to work with no recollection of the journey.
HPT gives people space to wake up, become conscious, and look at their lives and live them.

YADDA YADDA YADDA:
The automatic stuff going on in your head most of the time.  A synonym for chatter.

Bottom line:
Choose your words carefully.  These words are only some of the preferred words in the HPT canon.

We find them to be empowering, motivating, positive and above all else, honest forms of communication

Remember, 'Be Positive' may sound like a blood group but its really one of the mental components that help you achieve what you want, and doing what others say can't be done.